I refuse to go out with her cause I love someone else. Yet I encourage the girl I love to go out with someone she likes (She likes me too, but we're in different countries for a year) ANd I want her to date him for 2 reasons. A) Because I want her to be happy, and B) to see if she loves me, not just the idea of being loved. So here I am between a rock and a hard place. I can easily get out, but my mind won't let me, its forcing me into this corner and I don't think I'm gonna get out any time soon.