Hahaha... I gave a guy a boner! I feel accomplished right now. And I don't care how shallow that sounds.
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She said she feels accomplished. I never said she should feel bad about it - but it's weird to feel such pride in it, and it shows an unhealthy interpretation of what it is/means.by anonymous at
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But we don't know what her situation is. I'm saying that she shouldn't think it's anything special~ Really, it isn't anything big. It's a simple thing and is like feeling accomplished for eating a healthy breakfast in the morning.
What I was saying was that everyone reacted like she said "I gave a guy a boner! He totally loves me." If she had said that, then yeah, there would be some serious issues. I'm trying to get across that it's a simple action~ Nothing good OR bad about it.
Everyone else seemed to be saying two contradicting things, saying "It's nothing, it doesn't matter" and "It's bad, and you should feel bad". I believe it's all the first and not the second.by anonymous at -
Yep, it does.
If you are a guy, you know that a girl giving you a boner symbolises nothing, means nothing, and ultimately is nothing to be proud of. She really is just another pair of tixx to this guy. I'm far from bitter, but you shouldn't give her false hope/esteem regarding this.by anonymous
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Ignore the last two, they're just bitter.
Coming from a guy, I can say that giving a guy a boner, while not exactly the hardest thing in the world, isn't a negative thing like the two below me seem to think. It doesn't make you 'another pair of tixx', and I don't think it's shallow. It doesn't make you a sexual goddess, but you being proud of it isn't a bad thing.by anonymous at -
It's not like it's fücking hard to give a guy a boner, especially since he's probably like 16.by anonymous at
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No, it does sound shallow. It doesn't mean that the guy was interested in you romantically or emotionally. To him, you're just another pair of tixx.by anonymous at
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Ha, Chicken Farmer. I get it, 'cause you raise cocks. Everyone loves a good boner!by anonymous at
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It doesn't sound shallow at all. Good job! :-)by anonymous at
