experiment. Person 1. All into the "relationship" idea. When with person 2, things go well. A week passes with little contact from 1 to 2. 2 tried to initiate communication. Eventually 1 contacts 2 with booty call. 2 declines, requests info on "what's up" 1 then replies "we don't have anything in common and you're clingy" 2 is greatly amused. Months of communication refute half that comment. Clingy issue in doubt as only one request to be called after 1 petitions date. 2 then sees this is the usual method of "keeping his options open" 2 uses method in return. 1 requests another date, asks for 2's time and company.
Curious.