my boyfriend is a freshman in college and i'm in 10th in HS...(so we're only 2 yrs apart) anyway, i met him at his work and the friends i was there with introduced us. well even though we didn't really talk he found me on facebook and asked me on a date. the date went really well and he asked me to b his gf three days later. we've been together for two weeks now and he's really clingy..like he wants to see me allll the time. at first i thought it was sweet but now i'm a little concered that we're moving too fast...like his hands are almost always down my pants....and as much as i like it i'm worried that that's all he wants me for.....=[ we don't seem to be connecting anymore but i don't want to mention it for fear i'll sound paranoid. i'm scared..i don't want to lose him but i don't want to be in a meaningless relationship either.
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hmmm... i'd do a background check with his friends and see what the deal is. don't let yourself get burned by a guy that is that affectionate that quickly in ONLY that way. do you guys actually talk about things or is it like you're around and immediately start making out? because if it's the latter and you can't get the verbal communication going, i would get out of there. FAST.by anonymous at
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Its always better to waitby anonymous at
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i think you should go with your gut feelings, and lose him. clingy is not an attractive trait on anyone. if you talk about how you feel and he ignores that and continues this behavior, you'll only get more of the same if you stay with him. he's taking advantage of your age. i would stick with someone more your own age, or at least still in high school. you gotta stand firm on what you want, or you'll never get it.by anonymous at
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Well, as long as he's showing you in other ways that he really cares about you, then I'd say it's normal for a boyfriend to be that way. But if you're sensing that all he wants is sexual favors from you, then you may want to discuss how that makes you feel.by anonymous at
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i mean we DID talk about sex...like he knows i'm on birth control and i told him that even though im on it i don't want to have sex and he sounded fine with it but there's jst no way of knowing whether or not he's sincere-OPby lost at
