There is this girl I really like, more than I have ever liked another girl. I am bisexual, though more so into guys. I have told her how much I like her and how amazing she is...many many times (she really is amazing). She definitely flirts back sometimes (though I'm not even sure she's aware she does it), and has asked me to go places with her...almost date-ish, but not quite. I'm not even sure if she is into girls, but my rarely failing gaydar says she is...or at least a tiny bit bi. Anyway, I know she has never dated at all before and is a bit shy and awkward when it comes to those things, but despite my constant flirting I have yet to receive any clear signals from her. Another issue is that I am flirty and I joke a lot, so she may not even know if I'm serious and feel reluctant to express herself (wishful thinking). Maybe she just doesn't like me like that. Is it a lost cause? Should I just stick to being her friend and give up? I'm so confused...and ideas?
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This girl, if she is awkward and shy and never dated anyone - but still flirts back with you - I would say that means she is pretty dang into you. I would be a little more direct with her, ask her what she thinks of you, if she is into you. I am like that girl (shy, awkward, etc) and I only flirt when I mean it, but it is still hard to send signals without someone making a very clear opportunity for me to do so, and being quite direct with me. I would go for it.by Roo at
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and also, I do flirt with her more than I flirt with other people, probably because he is easy to flirt with and its my way of sending signs. But by 'constant' flirting I didnt mean like all the time, just often :)by anonymous at
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I'm just a naturally flirtatious person...which is unfortunate because it makes it harder for people I actually like to know. I know I should not be so flirty with everyone, but I seriously cant help it...maybe Im just an attention whxxx...who knows. But its also just plain fun to flirt, on both ends. She definitely likes it when I flirt with her, as does everyone else...its fun to be flirted with.by anonymous at
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Why do you flirt so much?by anonymous at
