I have been married to my wife for 10years. When we first got married my wife weighed around 128pds. She now weighs 215pds. She is 31 and still young. My wife used to be a personal trainer so she knows how to get in shape and what no to eat. I have been trying so hard to help her. I have been doing all of the cooking, cleaning, taking care of my son, plus all of the yard work. She is very messy!! Sometimes i have to tell her to take a shower because she will sit around the house like a big fat slob and do nothing. I am a firefighter and work 24hrs on and 48 off. I can leave something on the floor and come back and it is still there. She doesn't keep herself up or presentable. I am imbarassed when we go out. I have never cheated on my wife, but she is pushing me out there. There are women who know how to be clean and feminine out there that have been tempting me lately. I have done everything that i can!! I am emotinally tired and drained! What else is left to keep me from cheating?