he made it to second base tonight and i have never been more afraid in my life.
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if he really wants you to enjoy your physical relationship and genuinely cares about you, you have nothing to be afraid of if you decide to tell him you were highly uncomfortable and afraid with second base etc. seriously. respect yourself enough to tell him to respect you and your desires (whether you desire less physical contact or more). he likely didn't know he scared you and it would be beneficial to you both to let him know that. stay strong and good luck.by blinkaway at
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Ditto with first and third. You want him to back off a bit, let him know. I wish I had done this when it all happened to me. It really sucks to think back on all the time if you don't put a stop to something you aren't ok with.by Roo at
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What first responder said. You hae got to be 100% comfortable with everything that happens as it happens.by anonymous at
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good afraid, or bad afraid?by anonymous at
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Don't tell us tell your partner. Never, ever be too proud of scared to tell them you're afraid. I've made alot of crappy choices in life that I wouldn't have if someone had told me this. Learn from me.by anonymous at
