sounds like hes doing nothing wrong, your just upset that he has had these experiences with other people. Theres nothing you can do to change that, and am pretty sure youve had these experiences with other people too. When you get other your going to find everyones been there

He is my boyfriend. I've been with him for more than a year now. He's the One I want to share and spend my life with. He's wonderful for me and no, he doesn't go around talking about this at all r4eally. He pretty much never so much as mentions the name of a past girlfriend. We doesn't hide things from me and he doesn't lie to me, but sometimes he'll avoid mentioning anything to do with them, if it does come up, because he knows how it hurts me. We've been talking and working together this entire time to help me through this and great progress has been made. Sometimes, though, I just ... feel bad about it again. My mind will wander or one little insignificant thing will remind me of one of them and I'll feel bad. He always does his best to help and comfort me. I just feel like I need to talk to someone else who's been through something similar. I really think that will help me a lot. Thank you all for responding and trying to help. I really appreciate it.

Actually, best just talk to him/

i would suggest that you guys have a heart-to-heart, no bullshxx conversation about how you're feeling, what's triggering it, and what you may both be doing to contribute to it. maybe he mentions this stuff WAY too much and that likely would make you feel insecure. or maybe he meant NOTHING by one comment and now you're overanalyzing. i don't know. but it sounds like (if this has been going on for 10 months!!!) that this needs to be addressed. If he's not willing to compromise FAIRLY then he's NOT worth your time. dump his ass and find someone that deserves you. love yourself enough to recognize when someone is not respecting you/treating you fairly and then do something about it. good luck.

For more than 10 months now, I've been feeling bad about the fact that my boyfriend has had other girlfriends, has kissed them, traveled with them, loved them, had sex with them, etc. It's not easy for me to explain, but that's the very basic problem. I've been struggling with this for so long now. I feel angry, cheated on, betrayed, sad ... I know it's selfish and unrealistic and unreasonable. Even though the logical, reasonable part of me knows that, the emotional part of me can't seem to understand.