TO the person who replyed to this before me. You don't even know the half of it.

My advice is, you can't do anything sadly.
Because when you choose one, you constantly question if you should have chosen the other one.

There is no easy way to figure it out.
Because eventually they will both get tired of waiting which one.

The good news is...
One of them will come back
:)
and you will know who was really the one all along.