How do I get him back? Advice would be great here. After a month of being together he said he doesn't feel ready for a relationship. However he said he'd fallen in love with me, so surely he can't forget me that easily. How can I get him to take a chance on me? Should I wait for him to contact me first or should I text him?
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Ignore him.
They always want you back when you want nothing to do with them.
And if that doenst work then casually text him like old times and be like
"yo nigga was upppp?"
That will really throw him off
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Just be yourself, let your soul shine above other, love her and be there for her.by anonymous at
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If you call and he hangs up or doesn't answer, then he's a dxxx. But if you guys talk and everything, and he doesn't feel the way he felt before, then just move on. Plenty of fish in the sea and all that.by anonymous at
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We were only together for a month, I didn't say thats how long we had been friends & getting to know eachother.by lonely <3 at
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You guys weren't in love if you were only together for a month. A month is not enough time to develop that kind of deep feeling.by anonymous at
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But surely if I call him he'll just ignore it and not pick up, then will he not be scared off thinking that I'm clingy or something?by lonely <3 at
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It's not retarded; though "fear" might have been a wrong word to use, it still shows that she's uncertain of herself. Texting would be an easy way out.
I agree, though, with the rest of your advice.by anonymous at -
How does "texting shows a sign of fear" that's retarded. How can you possibly know what he's feeling?
To OP: if you want him back definitely call him. But don't beg. And if he says "no" again then take that as your final answer.by Cache at -
Don't text him. Texting shows a sign of fear. If you really care and want him back, call him. And don't buy that "I'm not ready for a relationship" bit; he's feeling something more.by anonymous at
