OH THANK GOODNESS.
WHAT A RELIEF!
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I can finally, finally, FINALLY differentiate between infatuation and love.
THANKS AFGHANI BOY!
WHAT A RELIEF!
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I can finally, finally, FINALLY differentiate between infatuation and love.
THANKS AFGHANI BOY!
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To the OP - I figured that. I posted the long quote in case someone checking out whisperz and also was looking for answers. It is the best wisdom I've found over the years, and I was hoping it might help others. To the second poster, grading posts isn't entertaining, it's boorish. Look it up. If you had an attention span longer than a 3-year-old (not to mention any level of maturity), you might learn something worthwhile.by first replier at
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haha...thanks to the first replier. I'm the original poster..I'm not justifying anything that I said. What I learnt, I belive everyone learns over time.
and also to the first replier.
I'm saving that.
just as a reminder!!by anonymous at -
Original poster gets a D because she should have known in the first place, and her punctuation is all over the place. Also "Afghani boy" is somewhat... racist?
The first responder gets a U. No way am I reading that truffle. I picked a random sentence out of it to read just in case it was any good, read Infatuation says, "We must get married right away! I can't risk losing you!"
That's not infatuation, that's alchohol.by anonymous at -
Infatuation is instant desire. It is one set of glands calling to another.
Love is a friendship that has caught fire. It takes root and grows, one day at a time.
Infatuation is marked by a feeling of insecurity. You are excited and eager, but not genuinely happy. There are nagging doubts, unanswered questions, little bits and pieces about your beloved that you would just as soon not examine too closely. It might spoil the dream.
Love is quiet understanding and the mature acceptance of imperfection. It is real. It gives you strength and grows beyond you to bolster your beloved. You are warmed by his/her presence even when he/she is away. Miles do not separate you. You want him/her nearer, but near or far, you know he/she is yours and you can wait.
Infatuation says, "We must get married right away! I can't risk losing you!"
Love says, "Be patient. Do not panic. Plan your future with confidence."
Infatuation has an element of sexual excitement. If you are honest, you can admit it is difficult to be in one another's company unless you are sure it will end - in intimacy.
Love is the maturation of friendship. You must be friends before you can be lovers.
Infatuation lacks confidence. When he/she is away you wonder if he/she is cheating. Sometimes you check.
Love means trust. You are calm, secure and unthreatened. Your beloved feels that also and that makes them even more trustworthy.
Infatuation might lead you to do things you will regret later, but love never will.
Love is an upper. It makes you look up. It makes you think up. It makes you a better person.by for those still wondering at
