good advice! exactly what I was going to say, but it was already said, and beautifully. Do you enjoy any interests or hobbie? Join a club where people do these types of things together. Meeting people like this has little or no pressure, and friendship is the best place to start from when looking for a life partner, if that happens to be what you're after. Check the newspaper or if you live near a community center or college for groups that might have the same interests you have. There's nothing like getting involved with your community. Just start simple and small, with every effort things will get easier and better. much love and luck to you!