personalities are like chemicals. sometimes you get the wrong mixture and things blow up in your face. other times you get something good but it doesn't gel. and if you're lucky, eventually you find the right combination and it's just right. There is no right and wrong, just personalities that mix better than others. Keep trying!

the first one seems like your giving me hints. any clues lol and iv never loved my self,

Get over her, open your eyes and look around, she's moved on its time for you too as well, and remember you don't always have to look far to find the right person, just look closer to you.