Life is balance.
Find the middle way.
Love yourself as much as you love others
Fall in love (not in lust) and have a career
don't compare yourself to others; find something beautiful about that person and love them secretly for it
Find your beliefs/spirituality/religion and flow with it
never ever feel guilty over what you should not
grow up and realize that your parents are there for love and support not to opress and suck the fun out of your life
feel happy over the ridiculous of things!!