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  • it is always about her. and that is why i cheated.
    by anonymous at

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  • Great advice! Does it also apply to someone who has been physically abused or cheated on? No it doesn't. If people are toxic you should put as much distance between you and them as possible regardless of their pleas. You need to break the cycle of abuse.
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  • my boyfriend loves aerosmith and everytime i hear them i am forced to think about him. when i cheated on him, the next day i went to planned parenthood to get a refill for birth control and this song came on and i was five seconds away from crying. i loved him and i fxxxed it up.
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  • i cheated on the only boy i ever truly loved last night. i want to take it back, it meant nothing. and you mean everything to me. please forgive me.
    by anonymous at

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  • For more than 10 months now, I've been feeling bad about the fact that my boyfriend has had other girlfriends, has kissed them, traveled with them, loved them, had sex with them, etc. It's not easy for me to explain, but that's the very basic problem. I've been struggling with this for so long now. I feel angry, cheated on, betrayed, sad ... I know it's selfish and unrealistic and unreasonable. Even though the logical, reasonable part of me knows that, the emotional part of me can't seem to understand.
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  • I have been married to my wife for 10years. When we first got married my wife weighed around 128pds. She now weighs 215pds. She is 31 and still young. My wife used to be a personal trainer so she knows how to get in shape and what no to eat. I have been trying so hard to help her. I have been doing all of the cooking, cleaning, taking care of my son, plus all of the yard work. She is very messy!! Sometimes i have to tell her to take a shower because she will sit around the house like a big fat slob and do nothing. I am a firefighter and work 24hrs on and 48 off. I can leave something on the floor and come back and it is still there. She doesn't keep herself up or presentable. I am imbarassed when we go out. I have never cheated on my wife, but she is pushing me out there. There are women who know how to be clean and feminine out there that have been tempting me lately. I have done everything that i can!! I am emotinally tired and drained! What else is left to keep me from cheating?
    by anonymous Male at

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  • people always see me as the strong one.. because all the others that seem so depressed seem so easy to tell the next person about it. with some its understandable that they just wanna tell someone and it got out. but i was never proud of being upset. i never had anyone to talk to about my problems. with amber i knew i would never love another person as i loved her. i still do love her.. but no one knows that. she was my everything and she not only cheated on me in front of my eyes with one of my best friends, but dumped me for the other. i was extremly depressed. i had no one. i took hundreds of advil and a bottle of robatusin (yes it can kill you). then i had ariel. me and her hung out more and more. but there was things that bothered the shxx out of me about her. like how different she acted in front of people. i spent everyday with her, i knew. and then i remember this one time i said something stupid like "oh im so emo ill just take these pills and kill myself" because she said something.. and it was funn
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  • as in...you cheated on her with 8 girls???
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  • I'm always afraid you'll go back to her.. the slut that cheated on you just because I clearly stated I don't want to have sex. I KNOW for a fact you won't but still... I also always fear she had gotten the best of you.
    by anonymous at

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  • It's okay. I've cheated on you, with all of your friends.
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  • i cheated on u back in october. im sry
    by anonymous at

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  • I want you back. I never stopped loving you. Your guy lives in another country, and you've cheated on him. It can't be what you want. Just tell me you love me and it'll all work out. I promise.
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  • When people say I don't have standards, or have only "cheated myself out of becoming a stronger, better person" over something so dumb, yes I get defensive. I am very bothered by people who follow rules for the sake of rules and who don't see the dire flaws of the public education system. And if you would read what I actualy said instead of just the tone with which I said it, you would get why I am so defensive. So yes it gets to me, and yes, I am defensive, but know it is not out of guilt. It is out of annoyance and insult.
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  • you only hurt yourself when you cheat. by making it "easier" you've only cheated yourself out of becoming a stronger, better person. it'll come back to bite you someday. hard.
    by anonymous at

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  • "I cheated on a test with, like seven other people.
    It wasn't even, like, texting each other answers or talking.

    It was getting out books, notes, and cheat sheets.
    In the library.
    I am praying that we wont get caught.
    Or that the library doesn't have cameras."
    Ha. I am the only one that does not cheat in my classes. I do use online resources for a particualr home assignments but not more. Get eyes, open your heart and stop judging.
    by anonymous at

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  • i know his ex cheated on him and he doesn't. every time i see him trying to be friends with her it tears me up inside. i want him to know what a horrible person she is so he never compares me to her.
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  • Really, I think it's true simply because he has been hurt too many times. And I know it's not just him making up things, his ex girlfriend told me about it (she cheated on him). That's why I believe him when I'm secure... but I've had too many people leave, so that's why I'm not that secure.
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  • That's how I feel... My boyfriend's ex got the best of him.... and sometimes I wish he was more secure because of that. She cheated on him even after he gave her his best... now he's scared that he isn't enough and now his best is lower than it used to be. I wish that he will be happy again.
    by Lira Female at

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  • No. You can't blame a girl just because she has been cheated on more than once, except maybe for her taste. Sometimes these things just happen, it's not ehr fault they cheat.

    and to OP, ya never know, my dear, ya never know!
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  • Very true Jane. I recently read that almost every guy that Kim Kardashian has dated has cheated on her. This leads me to believe she must have a bad personality or something.
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